Eliminating your fear of rejection might seem like a pretty daunting task, but the truth is, you can breakthrough just by changing your perspective. As human beings we inherently feel like we need to be liked by other people. We don't step outside the box because we are afraid of being rejected by other people.
The problem with having a fear of rejection is that it forces us to stay small. If you are scared of being rejected you will never have the guts to start your own business or talk to the woman or man of your dreams. It will keep you put in your small environment where you feel comfortable.
On the other hand, if you learn to overcome your fear of rejection it will free you up to approach new people and expand your opportunities. You won't be afraid of what others might think and you will be free to be yourself at all times. Learning to overcome your fear of rejection can be one of the biggest breakthroughs that you have in your life.
Ok, so how exactly do you overcome fear of rejection? It has to do with the way you think about things inside your own mind. When you are imagining running your own business or talking to that person you have always wanted to, what happens? Often we let our imagination take over, which usually prevents us from taking action.
The fact is that what you are thinking in your head is completely made up. It is a total fabrication of your mind. Really the worst that could possible happen is not a big deal or life threatening by any means. The worst thing that can happen is that someone will reject you and not like what you are offering them.
There is nothing bad about someone rejecting you. Understand that you will connect well with certain people and certain people will not connect with you. Once you understand that...
1/3 of people will like you 1/3 of people won't like you 1/3 of people don't care
then you won't be afraid of being rejected by anyone. Actually, when you do decide to risk it and DO get rejected, then you will understand that it is not something to be afraid of. You will realize that all your life you have been afraid of something that was only in your imagination.
When you finally breakthrough your fear of rejection you will be able to unlock opportunities that before would have never been a possibility. The key is to remember that it is a numbers game and the worst case scenario is never all that bad.