If you think the most important thing to a man is sex and that's why he might go after another woman at work or even the woman next door, then you're missing the real reason men stray. Yes, sex is great, but what a man really craves is a woman's admiration. He wants you to make him feel like a hero and many times all a man gets at home is criticism and nagging and no respect. If you really want to get him back then you're going to have to take a close look at this because you have more power than you know.

Yes, you may have your reasons for all the nagging and criticism, there's no doubt about it, but if you want to know how to win him back, stop and think for a minute about male psychology. Think about the adventure movies that men love and the hero figures that men dream of being. The need to be admired is hard wired into a mans psyche and an unhappy critical woman kills that need faster than anything. You're not going to change that by insisting you have every right to nag. You might be right, but a man is still a man!

You won't get him back by just polishing up your look, or playing games. You're going to get him back by making him feel great and nothing makes a man feel better than being admired. Admiration, acceptance and love are irresistible so use this information to win him back! If you can really embrace this power in a loving way, you will end up getting what you wanted in the first place, because if he gets what he really craves, which is your admiration and acceptance, he will do everything in his power to please you. So don't get caught up in who's right and who's wrong, be smarter than that! Too many women think nagging, criticism and showing disappointment in their man will make him shape up. It absolutely will not, because he's not a child. You can't train him like a dog. Your real power to get him back into your life is in your ability to make him feel like a hero.

Here's a simple way to begin to let him know how you feel and what you think about him. You're not going to call him up, or run right over to tell him how much you admire him because that will not be nearly as effective as if he "accidently" hears you singing his praises to your girlfriends, his friends, or even a stranger on the street! You can also talk about his great qualities and let it get back to him through the grapevine. However you do it, you will be amazed at how this will help you get him back after a break up, and will set the stage for a fabulous new relationship. Be smart and you'll get him back where he belongs before you know it.