"Will he ever love me again"? If you're in the uncomfortable and painful position where you are asking that question you'll be happy to know that the answer can be yes. Of course, there are never any guarantee's but it is very possible to regain the love and passion the two of you once shared.

One of the biggest things that will determine what you need to do to rekindle your love will be what went wrong in the first place. Did you treat him badly, cheat on him? If you did one of these more serious things it will take longer and be much harder to regain his love and trust.

If the problems in your relationship are more of a 'drifting apart' and not so dire, it may be a little easier to get the lovin' feeling back. Another thing you should consider is, are you sure he doesn't still love you? Just because the two of you are not as close it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't still love you. It could just be that the two of you feel the pressures of day to day life, and not that your love has died.

If you can find a way to spend more, and more meaningful, time with your guy you'll be able to remind him of the woman you are and why he fell in love with you the fist time you two met. It's very important to try to spend time together where you don't discuss work, the kids, your in-laws or any thing else. The two of you need to get into the two of you.

So, what do the two of you do while you're together? It doesn't matter. As long as the two of you do something that both of you enjoy and you do it together. It's not enough for you to tag along with him when he goes bowling or for him to follow you around the mall. You have to do things that both of you enjoy.

Ideally, this together time won't be in a large crowd but rather a more one on one setting. If the two of you like to go dancing than so be it, but it's even better if the two of you like to go some place that's quiet so you can talk and really get to 'know each other' all over again.

If you've really made a huge mess of things you may need to find a good counselor who can help you figure out what mistakes you made as well as why you made those mistakes. If you don't figure out those things you're just going to make the same mistakes over again, even if you do get back together.