Deciphering the human mind is a complex matter. especially with the members of the opposite sex. You really won't know if what your Sugardaddys says it what he means. Or what she says is what you think it is. Quite confusing right?

Love has this different, mysterious language that leaves most of us boggled. So let's do a quick tutorial on what guys and girls think about different, common phrases that we hear:

1. "You're different from what I expected you to be." This is so common, especially if the both of you met through online dating. What you think about the other person may differ from what they might look and act in real life. We tend to romanticise and exaggerate our expectations sometimes. So what does a guy and girl REALLY think when they THIS phrase:

What She Really Means: Oh, my God. You sound so different in your e-mails! You sound so sexy off the phone, and so witty over chat! But now, I am so horrified and a whole lot embarassed, and I can NOT even think of spending four totally long hours staring at you across the table. Someone help me. Better yet, let us both go home and save us all this drama.

What He Really Means: Oh. Well, hello. You look so different in person, was that really you in the picture. Which is pretty unusual for me, come to think of it. If you're up to a one night stand, then I'm up to it too, as long as you promise NEVER to contact me ever again.

2. "Would you like a drink?" Okay, weigh this first, are these the things you'd really want to say to your beloved. Another variation would be, "Can I buy you a drink?" Well, this small phrase actually means something else. Which depends according to the sex of the person saying it: What She Really Means: Can YOU please buy me the drink and act like a real gentleman should? Champagne would be nice. I'm going to the powder room for a bit, but when I get back, I expect that drink to be on the table. Okay?

What He Really Means: I am a big, strong, sexy, not to mention financially-capable man, who has the means to fund this evening. And, I also need a beer since I'm nervous. Really nervous.

3. "Let's sit there, it looks less noisy." Oh, an invitation! But to what, exactly?

What She Really Means: Let's sit over there since the lighting is going to do tons of wonders to my skin. It would be more flattering for me, so let's just GO.

What He Really Means: Let's sit over there where it's more secluded, and lesser people would see me touching your thigh. And oh, while we're at it, would you consider sleeping with me too?

Whoa. Insightful? Hopefully, it would be. But then again, these are not what they think all of the time. You could work your way around and take their words to your advantage, that is if your understand how they really are and what they truly mean.