How do you keep your army singles happy? Do you know how to keep them satisfied, while staying safe too? How can you assert some level of control on them, knowing that they have the hunter strain in their genes?
As hunters, military singles must not be denied their right and thirst to hunt. And so, you must not prove yourself an easy quarry or else, they will enjoy the chase less. What we women must do is to LET them chase us, we know who we are and what we can offer, so why not enjoy the chase, right?
Besides, we have got to admit that when they catch us in the end, they are not the only ones happy, but us too.
But in case you still have some trouble in keeping your male hunters happy, then here are some helpful tips and reminders for you:
1. Don't chase him. Ever. Taking the first step in e-mailing him doesn't count. But when you have initiated contact, then the ball is entirely in his court. Wait for him to reply, don't e-mail or contact him again. If he doesn't reply to your e-mail after three days, then forget about him and move on. There are other fish in the sea.
2. Do not be available every time he emails you or wants to chat with you. Alright, wait for a while to reply. Even with e-mails. Don't shoot off a reply the minute he sends you an email. Wait an hour or three hours, at least. But remember to REPLY. This would make him think that you are interested, but aren't easy to get. If your relationship has progressed to chatting, then do not be available 24/7. There's an invisible option on the chat box, so you can just lurk or stay hidden. Wait for him to message you, then reply after several minutes.
BUT, if you have already established communication, then reply to his IMs at once, especially if you two have set a time to meet over chat. Not doing so would make him think that you are not interested in him enough to go on the time you two specified. It's akin to being ditched or appearing late on a date.
3. Never hesitate to use the "Block User" button if someone does things that annoy or disturb you. Just because military dating is online, doesn't give men any license to take any form of liberties that you are not comfortable with. So even if he is in uniform, if he does something that you are not comfortable with, or you feel that is condescending or disturbing behavior, then don't settle for it and dump him.
Drop him if keeps asking pointless questions or makes rude and perverted innuendos. Drop him and drop him fast.
4. Protect yourself. Yes, you do want a military single. But no, you do not want to give out any personal information that may lead anyone right on your footsteps. GUARD yourself and be careful. Guard your privacy and safety, even in Uniform Dating.